Isolation and loneliness can go hand-in-hand, depending on the circumstances. In my life, I have had plenty of both, sometimes at the same time. With both a neglectful, narcissistic mother and an ex who had very similar traits, I was in the "perfect" position to keenly feel both of these. My mother abandoned me by … Continue reading Isolation and Loneliness
Tag: acceptance
The Painful Acceptance of Being An Abuse Victim
I watched a TED talk on why domestic violence victims don't leave this morning. It was heart breaking, even though the talk was done in a neutral manner, with very little display of emotion. My ex did not physically abuse me, but he threatened it and physically intimidated me at times. The way the verbal … Continue reading The Painful Acceptance of Being An Abuse Victim
Angels in Human Form
Some people call them Earth Angels. Mine are called friends. They may not be actual angels, but they are angelic to me. I would not have started nor been able to continue my current journey without these beloved people. Some have known me for many years and seen my descent into sadness and loss of … Continue reading Angels in Human Form
Elevenses in Cape Town 