I am not alone with the struggle of not being good enough. It is a repeated theme in conversations that I am privy to and seems to touch humans in general in some way or another. Sometimes it is big - a deep-seated belief of being completely unworthy of love or any form of kindness … Continue reading Tired of Being Tired
Month: November 2018
Let’s Talk About Sex Baby
I grew up in a household where sex was a taboo subject. In fact any discussion about the human body which might pertain to reproduction in any form, was taboo. We used to squirm when they even kissed in a movie, as that would invite a reproving look on my mother's face. I remember well … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Sex Baby
Putting on Big Girl’s Panties
I do not like big girl's panties. They bring up the image of very large, beige, fun-free panties. Perhaps they would be the ones you would wear as period panties. They are meant to symbolise getting on with life and not whining and complaining. They are an indication that you are supposed to be an … Continue reading Putting on Big Girl’s Panties
Woman in Chains
As per the Tears for Fears song, I sometimes feel like a woman in chains. I wish it was as simple as the line “So free her”. I feel chained to my life history and no matter how hard I try, it is like trying to escape from being chained in the middle of a … Continue reading Woman in Chains
Running Away
I do love the open road - the freedom of driving long distances has appealed to me for many years. I love the time it gives me to contemplate, without being distracted by the multitude of things I contend with every day. I like that I can focus only on one thing and to some … Continue reading Running Away
Elevenses in Cape Town 